Monday, November 27, 2006

My brother from another Mother (and Father)

This is mainly for Brig, who doesn't yet know - Phillip will not even see this until he returns to Phoenix. Phillips Mom and step dad were in a car accident yesterday. The prognosis for Sandy is not good. We were up til 3am this morning talking and everytime he called the hospital there was no change, she is still hanging in there, but they can't stop the bleeding and had already given her 12 units of blood. Her hip is broken and swelling as well. Jeff (her husband) and Phillip have decided she will be DNR and no life support. This is very hard for my best friend, and any prayers for him and his Mom would be great. I took him to the airport this morning to catch an 11am flight to Wichita, he should arrive around 520pm and head straight to the hospital. I will update as I know more.

I really wish I could be there with you right now to help you through whatever happens. I know I was trying to keep everything light and not sad last night. I know for all your Mom's faults, she is still your Mother and it would be a terrible loss to you even though it hadn't yet sunk in. I love you my friend and will do whatever I can to help you.


LoveTheDivaPrincess said...

As you take care of Phillip please know that I will be here to take care of you! I love you very much, you are a wonderful friend and Phillip is so lucky to have you during this time. Please lean on me if you need me! I will sit and cry with you if you want. I feel the need for a good cry coming on anyways!

MOVIEMAN said...

That made me cry. I just wrote my blog and came here to read what you wrote. Thank you for everything. I need you so much.

I love you.

Dakini said...

Thanks, Kris, sorry that I just reading this post now! Though you know we all talked and got through to each other via phone! I love you and Phillip and want to move out there now more than ever. Life is short we must live it, and we want to live it near yáll! I love you!